Home Owner Associations and Their Meetings

Home Owners Associations, #HOAs, are usually governed by a #boardofdirectors made up of #volunteer owners who were voted in by the other owners of the homes in the given #community to represent them. This board facilitates making decisions for the HOA and enforcing the rules established by the community. It’s a #representative form of government with elected officials serving terms to encourage limits for needed breaks and change of #leadership.

These individuals who volunteer to serve on the board commit to read, review important documents, and attend regularly scheduled meetings where the community at large is usually only expected to attend the annual meeting. Since it is a volunteer effort most HOAs hire a community manager and or management company to facilitate the processing of the #communitybusiness.

These management companies often get hired by HOA’s because they offer services at a low bid estimates. So the person who winds up answering the phone for these communities may not be compensated very well, trained, much less care about the neighborhoods needs. This individual may even be overwhelmed with managing other communities at the same time. This is the first challenge.

The second challenge is usually when owners/residents are motivated to call the management company it is because they have a complaint. Who wants to listen to people whine? Especially if they are going to do so rudely.

This all spills over to what it means to serve on the board of directors. It also tends to be a thankless job that subjects them to bullying, yelling, and screaming that spews out from unhappy community members, but it’s a VOLUNTEER one. This is addition to the time it takes often leaves open positions rather than lots of competitive candidates that are motivated to serve their community to make it a better place.

These were all known challenges to getting along and living in community with other, but add into this technological needs to administer a business that constantly are changing that opened up the possibility of virtual meetings after 2020 has complicated matters even more.

Take for example Palmetto Pines HOA. It’s a decent sized community of single family homes off of Palmetto Park Road West of 441. I recall looking at two different homes for sale in 2021. Since I haven’t had the best experience with HOA’s in Miami, FL and North Bethesda, MD, I really hesitated to put a contract on either home. But if I were going to buy a house in Boca Raton, it was almost needed as very few parts of this town are HOA free.

So, I called to see if I could review the bylaws. I was baffled at the answer. I was denied by the company because they were only permitted to give them to the owner. Thankfully, the owner’s selling the house I was most interested called, got them, and gave them to me.

Then the question comes how nit picky is this community in enforcing the rules? Is someone going to inspect my lawn weekly with a ruler to measure the height of my grass? Will I be harassed if I leave the garbage can out too long?

I wound up buying and settling in this community. I’ve taken time to introduce myself to my neighbors and get to know them. In turn, I’ve found that some are happier and/or more helpful than others, but overall they’re pretty good people who just want a nice respectful neighborhood to live in.

But, we’re all pressed for time to bring in a buck, care for our families, and maintain our properties. So it makes it hard to keep track much less attend the HOA meetings to stay involved. Then to add to it, who has time to establish their account, remember their login password etc. to be able to participate in quarterly Zoom meetings only to run into more obstacles like:

Who is going to type in that meeting address and password? I think my one neighbor who I reached out to probably copied and pasted it to be 1/2 residents who logged in with a total of 7 people in the meeting. Now, that may make for a quick and efficient meeting, but it doesn’t encourage much community involvement, responsibility, or accountability.

I know from the one Zoom meeting I that had enough time and energy to attend a few years back I decided to follow up on one of the items discussed. I rode my bike over to the section of the neighborhood that apparently had a parking problem. What I found was inconsistent with what the management company reported. But, do. you think any management company is going to turn themselves into the board for not doing a good job?

Thankfully, I knew where the president of the board lived. I took photos of the reality I saw. I reported that the signs were already there just required a little cleaning which I did, and hopefully, he was able to save the community money on further action on the situation.

The problem is, I’ve not had enough time or energy to do anything else, much less really get to know the board members so that they know I’m just trying to keep our costs down and neighborhood nice. To add to it that president whom I gave the information that I witnessed sold his house and moved out of state so I lost my contact.

So I’m pretty much back to where I started except let’s hear it and give three cheers for the one neighbor who was able to log in and listen in on the meeting! Remember it only takes one person to make a difference!!!

Divide the Culture, Superbowl Half-Time

One’s own culture can be tricky to observe and contemplate because seeing the forest when you are living in the trees is tough to do. It’s always been easier to recognize a culture different from one’s own because the contrasts stand out and often offend. To articulate what one routine repeats on a daily basis takes a big breath, step back, and serious self-reflection.

Consider the Superbowl, its comercials and half-time show. How many host or attend a party to tune in to what used to be a unifying American experience? Once upon a time schools and cities rallied together to support the local sports teams. But the Super Bowl rises above this and calls all in the United States to come party at this once a year event. The ensuing Monday morning is full of chatter about the commercials, game, and half-time entertainment. This wasn’t always the case.

The tide turned in 1993 when #MichaelJackson was selected as the Super Bowl Half-time artist. According to IMDB , Jackson’s presence doubled viewership. The NFL quickly learned the power behind who they invite to perform and turned this into one of the most decked out pop/rock shows to exist. No longer was this event just about football. It became the platform to prop up the pop/rock idol of the day to manipulate the masses. Yes, manipulate.

Fast forward to #SuperbowlXXXVIII in 2004, ironically Michael’s sister, #JanetJackson, performed Rock Your Body with Justin Timberlake supposedly had a wardrobe malfunction where she was exposed in front of ~150 million viewers many of whom were naive children. If it were truly an accident on stage, the original choreography of what supposed to happen, Timberlake remove the bustier part of Janet’s costume to review a red lace bra is certainly not “G rated” much less family friendly. The grooming of children has been going on for sometime.

Most people are completely blind to the purpose of entertainment. While it has a time and place in each person’s life, it has grown to proportions where some never grow up. I witnessed my late father being one of them. Don’t get me wrong, my dad was responsible. He earned his pharmacy license and worked for the same corporation for 32 years. But besides providing for his family, life to him was about always cracking a joke, making fun, playing a round of golf or tennis, and then plopping in front of ESPN for hours upon end. He subscribed to the local newspaper for one purpose: to read the sports page.

Many people, like my dad, want to be amused for life. This was done on purpose. A group of people who are immature are easily seduced, deceived, conquered, and controlled.

I applauded TurningPoint USA’s impressive alternate half time show. f you missed it, I took photos of the time to move your cursor to in order to watch the show on #YouTube. The link is at the bottom of the blog.

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I’m not sure hosting #KidRock was the best idea since lyrics to other songs he produced are definitely questionable, but at least he didn’t sing those songs at this performance in a foreign language and pretend it was family friendly like the #NFL hired #badbunny to do.

Don’t you love how classy they’re all dressed in #turningpointusa’s show?

#GabbyBarrett models that a gorgeous woman doesn’t have to dress like a slut when on stage behind a microphone. 😅 Recall how Janet Jackson was dressed for that SuperBowl Half time show. Barrett’s attire finally gives our girls a good role model on how to dress and carry themselves!

How about the quality lyrics to the songs performed? “A life without work is just a myth.” “If you got to label me, label me proud.” “when we’re pressed down, we get back up again.” “There’s a book in your house…”

Just make sure you teach your kids how to respect and drink responsibly since one of the song does glorifies the drinking crowd.

While I am not a huge fan of Country Music as a genre, it’s 💯 American Culture and known for quality lyrics as opposed to the stereotypical rebellious, sexual, angry, and violent lyrics of Rock, Hip Hop, and pop music.

https://www.youtube.com/live/nJszMT9wZtQ?si=kLkFCFfclXhALZKshttps://www.facebook.com/share/p/1Absbk62qJ/

Many others had a lot to say. Clayton Wood wrote on #Facebook, “Here we go again another Superbowl Halftime controversy https://www.facebook.com/share/p/1GRTqePzDk

MCRTV posted on Facebook the English translation to Bad Bunny’s lyrics sung on stage. https://www.facebook.com/share/p/1HxQvkajRS/ Yikes, not exactly the music I want to listen to much less my kids. But hey, I did the same thing when I was a teen. I thought I could enjoy the beat and ignore the lyrics. When they mumble like Bad Bunny in another language its not tough to do. However, words do matter. More on that thought the blog I wrote on The Folly of Don’t Be a Prude.

Back to the Superbowl Half-Time Show, the NFL doesn’t like the competition https://www.facebook.com/share/p/1Zc1arNu3Y/

David Rameria title his FB post, “When Two Halftimes Reveal a Nation’s Spiritual Crisis.”

Then starts his blog with, “#SuperBowlLX gave America more than a football game—it gave us a mirror, and the reflection reveals a profound spiritual crisis.

Bad Bunny became the first Latino solo artist to headline the halftime show, performing almost entirely in Spanish.  At the exact same moment, Turning Point USA streamed an alternative show featuring Kid Rock, drawing millions who refused to watch the official broadcast. 

Two stages. Two Americas. One spiritually sobering moment. The Problem on Both Stages…” Read the rest here: https://www.facebook.com/share/p/19FFjBqWNU

In closing, its not about English verse Spanish although I have a lot of experience with this having written a children’s book and songs in Spanish.

It’s about getting people to push further apart on politically polar opposite spectrums to insult, mock and shame one another. It’s also to continue to amuse the masses to keep them fat, happy, and stupid so that they can be culturally, spiritually, and economically controlled by one centralized global power that is rebellion against YWHY.

Resources:

https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0482607/plotsummary/?ref_=tt_ov_pl

https://www.msn.com/en-us/entertainment/celebrities/inside-janet-jackson-and-justin-timberlake-s-infamous-super-bowl-nipplegate-scandal/ar-AA1VNWUr

https://www.that-was-the-year.com/post/the-evolution-of-american-culture-from-post-war-grit-to-1950-s-glamour

Liam Out Loud concisely articulates what’s really going on. https://www.facebook.com/share/p/1BCyphtFha

https://www.forbes.com/sites/tonifitzgerald/2026/02/06/what-to-know-about-turning-point-usa-halftime-show-including-controversies